“Lord, Why Am I Still Single? “A question many of us ladies (and men) have asked or are asking ourselves. In my pre-marriage days, before I ever met my husband, I would go before the Lord and ask why? For one reason or another, “marriage” was a subject that the majority, if not all, of my faculty associates, would speak about always. Looking again, I see now why these days of singlehood have been needed and why they wanted to “be” or “happen.” God created the establishment of marriage and He is aware of precisely what we have to achieve it.
For you all who I single, I do advocate that you simply begin praying to your partner now. Even although chances are you’ll not know who she or he is, God does, and praying for them can maintain her or him coated. Here are three causes, why I consider God is preserving you to your man of valor or your virtuous girl.
Reason 1: Relationship with God
God is a jealous God. He needs to be primary in your life and He doesn’t need to compete with anybody or something in your life. God needs to be your precedence over every part, corresponding to your office, your ambitions, your each day life, in every part! In your singlehood, take this time to be intimate with God, get entangled in church and different extra-curricular actions, get to know extra about yourself, choose up a brand new pastime, journey the world, make new associates and luxuriate in your single time, as a result of as soon as married, chances are you’ll by no means get that point again (and that’s the hope proper?).
Reason 2. Maturity
God is ready till you attain a sure stage spiritually, bodily, mentally, socially, and many others. Life is stuffed with rising, experiencing, and studying. It’s attainable, God needs you to undergo some experiences that may make you a greater future spouse or husband to your future mate. He could also be stopping you from having points in a while. God at all times has the most effective for you, He is aware of you higher than anybody else and he solely needs you to succeed and be your finest to your future partner.
Reason 3. Timing
Timing is everything. In Ecclesiastes 3, Solomon talks about timing. Everything has a time and a season. Lifeworks in seasons and there is a season for you in marriage. I remember the month before I met my now-husband, I was praying and God spoke to me and said ” You are in the season of marriage.” At the time, I had no idea that I would meet my husband the next month! God has the perfect timeline of your life, your only job is to trust Him and follow His leading. You follow His leading by obeying Him, praying, reading the Word, and being involved in a church. God is grooming you (and your spouse) to be the best for one another and the time that God brings you together, it will be a match made in heaven. In the meantime, enjoy your life!